Does the person you’re dating:
- Embarrass you with put-downs or gossip about you?
- Look at you or act in ways that scare you?
- Control what you do, who you see, talk to, where you go, or what you wear?
- Stop you from seeing your friends or family members?
- Make all of the decisions?
- Prevent you from working or attending school?
- Act like the abuse is no big deal, it’s your fault, or even deny doing it?
- Force you to have sex?
- Intimidate you with guns, knives or other weapons?
- Shove you, slap you, choke you, or hit you?
- Threaten to kill you or harm themselves if you break up?
- Monitor your computer or phone use or text and IM you constantly?
- Send you mean or scary emails, IM’s or text messages?
If you answered yes to ANY of these questions about your relationship or a friend’s relationship, there may be abuse. For more information you can call Safe Place 24 hours a day at 432-570-1465 or 1-800-967-8928. Or contact the National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline at 1-866-331-9474. Their web site – loveisrespect.org – has a live chat room from 4 p.m. to 2 a.m. central time.